FeedbackThoughts

The article that most matched my personality was the one that talked about dealing with rejection. I have had a few moments in my life that I have been rejected pretty hard and that affected  the way I thought about myself and acted. Even to this day I still struggle with how a feel about myself in certain situations were I might doubt myself or feel that sense of rejection or already count myself out just because of that one moment of my life. However, this article really put some light in how to react to that kind of rejection and how to deal with it if I ever feel it again. 

I think I could really benefit from working on how to be a mirror for people. I am not notorious for giving good feedback to people. I would like to blame it on the fact that I haven't been in many situations that warrant my feedback. I think that would be a false assumption of myself, because in all honestly I run from alot of situations when they want feedback from me. So in many ways this article was very good for me in learning how to grow in being a mirror for people.

Personally I take negative feedback pretty well. I don't think of myself has a perfect person or someone that has reached the peak of my abilities of anything. I have always been taught that there is always room to grow in everything that we do. In result of being taught that as a little kid I think I fair pretty well when it comes to negative feedback. The think that I think I need to work on when I get negative feedback is that when it comes from a family member or someone that is my friend. When geting feedback from them about really anything I really have to breath and take it in as if I don't know them because I try to be the best person for them and when they point something out to me that I thougt I did my best on it frustrated me a lot of the time.

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